Tuesday, October 08, 2013
Observations Coming Home From Stone-Campbell Dialogue
Monday, October 07, 2013
Lift Up Your Heads
Several weeks ago I was in a conversation with another minister who said to me, "You reach for scripture a lot." I thought it was an odd thing to say especially from one minister to another. I didn't have a good response for my colleague. What I wished I had been able to say is, "I don't reach for scripture. Scripture reaches for me." That's not sarcasm. Christian discipleship at its best is to have the sort of intimacy with scripture that you think about your life in terms of scripture.
One of the scriptures that reaches for me is Psalm 24:7, "Lift up your heads, O gates! And be lifted up, O ancient doors! That the King of glory may come in."
When I'm feeling particularly low and feeling sorry for myself, this text reaches for me. When it feels like the Christians around me are dismissing their own capacity, this text reaches for me. When a church dismisses its capacity to serve with significance, this text reaches for me.
This text was spoken to the threshold of the temple perhaps prayed during the rebuilding of the temple after the exile. I personalize it. We are the gates. We sometimes our heads fall and our confidence fails and we need to hear someone say, "Lift up your heads."
We need the reminders that we are more powerful than we give ourselves credit for. We are indeed mightier than we thinke we are. "Lift up your heads you mighty gates."
Most importantly this text reaches for me to remind me that we are the threshold through which Christ enters and is visible I the world today. As we used to say to one another a lot, "You are the only scripture some people may ever read." We are the only Christ some people may ever see. "Lift up your heads, O gates! and be lifted up, O ancient doors! that the King of glory may come in."
Lift up your heads Christians you are the mighty threshold of The Lord.
Saturday, October 05, 2013
My Wife Was Right
Out of anger, I decided I would take the passive aggressive approach. I dreamed up a way to annoy the crap out of her. Whenever she asked about my day, my feelings, my thoughts, I would exaggerate how great things had been. "I'm doing great." "Things are wonderful." "Nothing is wrong." I was a pretty good actor in High School, I was born to play this role. And, I succeeded. I annoyed the crap out of her. She'd ask, I'd respond, she'd roll her eyes. It was not one of my finer moments in family communication.
But two other things began to happen. First, I started to review the past few months of my life and had to be honest that Lori was right. I was making choices to be miserable. I knew the end of the day question was coming and I was trying to win an implicit contest--who's had the worst day. I was fixating on the negative. I was telling myself that I was helpless in the face of the problems I encountered, incompetent, resigned to my fate, and powerless. By winning "Who's had the worst day" competition, I was losing. I was losing my joy and losing happiness with my family.
People very close to us really were having the worst days of their lives. In some ways, I was internalizing their grief or anxiety. That sounds noble. But it's really not. We cannot absorb another person's sorrow the way a paper towel absorbs a spill. It doesn't work that way. My choice to be miserable wasn't helping.
The other thing that happened took me completely by surprise. The more I faked being happy, the happier I actually felt. About a year ago, Amy Cuddy delivered a TED Talk that reported findings of research about the impact of power poses on people's body chemistry. She studid body posture and hormones and found that standing like your confident actually raises the hormones related to confidence. Toward the end of the talk she simply said "Fake it till you become it." I certainly saw that beginning to take shape as I "faked" acting happy.
I wrote Lori a text a couple of Sundays ago that said, "'Fake it till you make it' is going to sound fake at the beginning." It was a pretty lame attempt at an apology and an admission that she was right all rolled up together. Since then we've had a couple of open, face-to-face conversations which is a much better way to communicate.
So, my wife was right about me. I hate to admit that. No, I mean. I love admitting that. It's the most wonderful thing in the world. It's awesome when my wife offers and insightful observations about my tendencies to focus on the negative. I love it. It's wonderful. My wife was right, Again.
Wednesday, October 02, 2013
Excuses
Monday, September 23, 2013
The Good Confession
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Reading the Speeches in Acts
I'll cut to the chase, if we accept Acts as a meeting ground for our understanding of the church, then we need to take seriously Acts claim about the messages that get delivered. It is the spoken message that initiates the action in Acts. Let me say that again, it is the spoken message that initiates actions in Acts. I think we may have gotten side-tracked by three issues: (1) our near-dogmatic belief that actions of service speak for themselves and that our good works inherently point to the good news; (2) arguments about style and channels we use to convey the message and inattention to the message itself, (3) our tendency to replace Christ himself with the church. Perhaps it is time that we focus in a new way about what it is we are actually trying to say before we try to think about how we say it.
Monday, September 16, 2013
Crossing Boundaries. Forty Days from Dreams to Decisions, Days 1 & 2
The boundaries at the time were the boundaries that had been defined by ritual laws (compare Deuteronomy 23:1 and Acts 8:25-40), gender boundaries (Acts 16:11-15), and most importantly ethno-religious boundaries--the boundary between Jew and Gentile (Acts 10-11). It is difficult to express just how rigid these boundaries were at the time. But the Gospel was and is for everyone. It had to push past these boundaries.
I wonder what boundaries we experience today. I think one is the boundary between people comfortable in the church culture and people who are not. Decades ago, churches could assume that most people were Christian. People were going to go to church on Sunday morning. the only question was "where?" Churches competed for members the way businesses competed for customers. Churches could rely on people's embedded knowledge of church culture to yield members. As a result, Churches focused more on gaining more members and less on actually sharing the gospel and making Disciples.
Fewer and fewer people are looking for a church home for all of the cultural reasons they did in previous generations. People still need Jesus as much as they ever have. The church needs to relearn what we have forgotten. The church needs to learn in new ways how to take the gospel past the boundaries. Think about all of the skills it takes to come to worship on a Sunday morning--hymn reading skills, Bible passage finding skills, sermon listening skills. Perhaps we take this for granted since we've grown up in church culture but, this an many other conventions that govern our shared life can't be taken for granted as we answer Christ's call to be his witnesses.
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
FaithLife Discussion Facilitation
My explanation of the FaithLife Web Browser Portal
My explanation of the FaithLife iPhone App
FaithLife Bible Study App on iPhone
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Culture of Church and the Death of Church
I predict the "culture of church" will be the death of the church. Until the church gets more focused on the teachings of Jesus and less focused on a manipulative concept of success, emotionalism, and dogmatism; it will always look like foolishness to outsiders and feel "only" like church to insiders.This is a sentiment I've heard repeatedly over the past few weeks. It was expressed by the presenters at this year's Adult Faith Focus--three of whom were millenials. It was the sentiment expressed in recent CNN Belief Blog post recent by Rachael Held Evens. It was the summation of the Reveal at Willow Creek Church which brought to light years of research the church had done on its approach to church. And, in truth, its the sentiment that gets expressed in nearly every generation of Christianity.
I do not disagree with the sentiment. As followers of Jesus Christ, we should be more concerned to be faithful to Jesus's teachings. What has been missing in all the varied calls to eschew gimmicks and pursue more faithful and authentic forms of ministry is evidence that such an approach actually works at attracting anyone.
Two things happen when a church is labeled "unfaithful" because its approaches to ministry are accused of betraying Jesus's core convictions. First, people line up examples of churches that are more faithful and claim that a church can actually be . . . thoughtful . . . . liturgical . . . progressive . . whatever and still grow or be successful. Second, people defend the practices in the attractional churches arguing that they have reached more people for Jesus than the others. They are doing a better job of doing the very last thing Jesus said we were to do--go into the world and reach people with the gospel. Their growth is evidence that they are indeed being faithful.
What few people are willing to say is that Jesus may not actually be all that concerned with the survival at least of the institutional forms of the congregations formed in his name. Jesus said that those who make their own survival their overriding concern will not survive (Matthew 16:24-28, Mark 8:34-9:1, Luke 9:23-27).
Saturday, September 07, 2013
My Prayer for Syria
Lord Jesus Christ, Prince of Peace, Reconciler of humanity, in your life, death and resurrection you have proclaimed peace to those who are near and those who are far away. You have destroyed the dividing wall of enmity. You have formed one new humanity and you have reconciled that one new humanity to God. Hear my prayer, merciful savior.
I confess that I harbor a hostile attitude within my own mind and attitude toward others. I confess that too quickly I enjoy the stories of violence and hostility with what I watch and what I imagine. I am a man of unclean lips, heart and mind. I humbly ask you to forgive me and cleanse me from the hostility to which I cling.
When violence is done, we want to respond with violence. When people injure other people, we want to punish them. It is our impulse to treat others unlike the way you have treated us. Today, I pray that you will intervene in our world. "Cure thy children's warring madness." Cleanse the world today, dear Lord. Both within Syria and between Syria and the nations of the world, bring peace.Help us to see that in your cross you absorbed the world's hostility, took it to the grave with you so that there it might die. Help us to be cleansed in the baptismal waters of your death so that we might rise to live in newness of life.
We pray as you taught us that God's will would be done on Earth as it is in heaven. There are neither chemical weapons nor attack drones in heaven and so we pray that it would be the same on Earth. Reshape our swords into plowshares. Make us more passionate about feeding one another than we are to destroy one another.
Form us now into a new people, fellow citizens with those whom we now label enemies. Bring us together as members within God's household built on the foundations of the apostles and prophets with you, Lord Jesus Christ, our chief cornerstone. Amen